How to truly understand the social media trap
Social media makes us feel like we're doing the very thing we're not doing -- because we're too busy doing social media.
We've all heard about what's wrong with social media. The algorithms surface content designed to trigger emotions, and so we're all constantly exposed to triggering content. Filter bubbles protect us from opposing viewpoints. It's addictive and time-wasting. It's filled with haters and trolls. Yada, yada, yada.
There's truth in all of this. But the real problem with social media is something people never talk about.
Here's the problem: Social media makes you feel like you're doing the very thing social media is preventing you from doing.
Let me explain.
We live in an attention economy. Your attention is worth more than gold.
If attention is currency, then social media distraction represents a transfer of wealth from yourself to whoever is most successful at taking your attention — Meta (the company formerly known as Facebook that owns Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram), Google (which owns YouTube), ByteDance (which owns TikTok), Snap (the company that owns Snapchat), Reddit, Pinterest, Twitter and others.
These companies extract your attention the way "the Machines" extract electrical energy from people in the "The Matrix."
Of course, some distraction is good. At the end of the day, it's great to forget about our troubles with online escapism. Such distractions, plus connecting with other people, may be especially important during a pandemic lock-down. A little social media is nice.
But with each passing month, the distraction industry evolves to become better at manipulating your paleolithic brain to distract. And we don’t evolve quick enough to resist.
As a result, people time spent on social media grows every year and shows no signs of stopping. Every year, we transfer more and more attention wealth to the giant corporations that have created the best distraction artificial intelligence technology.
And so we are distracted by social media more than we should be or want to be.
Society is slowly evolving into something out of the novel "Ready Player One," where everyone is so distracted (in the movie by a "metaverse," called "The Oasis") that the real world goes to hell. Everyone is too distracted with digital experiences to take care of the real world.
OK, social media distraction isn't that bad. Yet. But it’s still true that for many people, social media distraction, obsession and addiction is the main barrier to achieving real-world goals and making our own lives better.
Different people are triggered by different social media distraction drugs. I know many people who get sucked into Instagram like they're hypnotized. Others can't stop watching YouTube. We journalists can't seem to stay off Twitter.
We've heard the theories and seen the studies. Let's finally understand how this all really works.
Mike’s List of Brilliantly Bad Ideas
1. How low can they go? One influencer found the bottom, so to speak!
The world of Instagram and TikTok influencers grows ever more shameless, and the stunts and business models get forehead-slappingly dumber. Meanwhile, the NFT world grows ever more ridiculous by the day. But when these worlds collide… A former reality TV star named Stephanie Matto extended her 15 minutes of fame by farting into jars, then selling the jars for $1,000 each as "fart art." She claims to have made around $200,000 from this particular brand of vaporware. Tragically, her gas-generating diet sent her to the hospital. And so — believe it or not, here comes the dumb part — she pivoted her company to selling virtual farts as NFTs. No, you don't buy a real fart in a real jar, just the idea of a fart in a jar (for $186 each). It's a lower price, but her fulfillment costs are zero and she'll make it up in volume.
2. Now you can play video games and eat pizza at the same time!
A product designer named Akaki Kuumeri invented a 3D-printed controller accessory called the One-handed DualSense that lets you play with one hand. Now you can play a PS5 game while writing your novel, eating pizza or driving a car! (Or you can download and print two and play two controllers at the same time!)
3. Worst case scenario: a smartphone case with a concealed knife
Modern smartphones have for years enabled you to do many things: shine a flashlight, hike with a compass, get distance with virtual measuring tape, edit video, calculate numbers and a thousand other things. One thing you haven’t been able to do with a smartphone is shank a motherf*cker. Until now! This case with a concealed knife is called the Knyphe case, and TSA is gonna love it.
4. The robot “art” nobody asked for
Mike’s List of Shameless Self Promotions
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